I found this quote and really liked it so i thought i'd share it wtih all of you :) thanks so much for being such great friends! and juss a note on what's been happening today. well i was inspired by a friend to make notes! they just make your day :) thanks jenny! :D

When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means
the most us, we often find that it is those who, instead of
giving much advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to
share our pain and touch our wounds with a gentle and tender
hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of
despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief
and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not
healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that
is a friend who care. -- Henri Nouwen